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Better Meetings Day #10: Foundation of Face to Face

by Harry Waisbren, 3:00 pm on June 6, 2010 | 3 Comments

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Sometimes, it’s very healthy to take a step back, have a deep breath, and make sure you’re not missing the forest for the trees.

At Qworky, we know that we can’t forget the bigger picture as we try to make meetings better. This is why we’re following up our posts about online meetings and practices to get more value out of emails with an analysis of just what makes meeting face to face so valuable in the first place.

The Value of Meeting Face to Face

Harvard Business Review Analytic Services has a very useful report in this department, entitled Managing Across Distance in Today’s Economic Climate: The Value of Face-to-Face Communication (PDF), where they examine the results from their global survey of 2,300 Harvard Business Review subscribers about their views on face to face meetings.

Despite the influx of meeting technology, 79% of those surveyed believe that in-person meetings are still the most effective way to meet new clients to sell business, while 89% agreed that face-to-face meetings remain essential for “sealing the deal” in particular.

Also, an overwhelming 95% understand the “high impact” of in-person communication and say that face-to-face meetings are a key factor in successfully building and maintaining long-term relationships.

In fact, although sales and business development were identified as the areas most dependent on face to face meetings, the importance of face to face communication for relationship building remains central. It is especially emphasized for bridging cultural gaps, and “93% agree that in-person meetings are helpful when negotiating with businesspeople who have different language and cultural backgrounds.”

Making Relationships Deeper

Roger Rickard, the Chief Business Solicitor of REvent, says “face to face interaction is the driving force in building lasting relationships and creates a bond that enables far greater communication in the future. Once we’ve spent time together face-to-face, both parties feel both a deeper connection and a stronger obligation to one another.”

This experience is also described by Karen Leland, President of Sterling Marketing and Consulting Group, when she explains how face to face encounters provide her a “deeper sense of who they were, how they operated and their personalities” while also helping her to “see their faces in my mind’s eye” whenever she emails or talks to them on the phone afterwards as well.

A Foundation to Move Forward

“When you find yourself face-to-face with someone, you realize you can explore, ask questions, keep asking more questions and get to the heart of the matter,” author Joanne Black explains within Leland’s post.

Learning how we can best develop relationships and environments where we feel safe enough to push to get to the heart of the matter—whether we are communicating in person or not—seems to be a key to a future of Better Meetings, and we’re on the case developing the tools and practices to get there!

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3 Responses to “Better Meetings Day #10: Foundation of Face to Face”

  1. Thanks for this excellent post, Harry. Like you, I’ve learned to NEVER underestimate the power of face to face. Yes, you can get a lot done through conference calls, Skype and virtual meetings, but they never offer the opportunities that spending real time in real life with people offers. Shared experiences, spontaneous conversations, the experience of personality nuances are much harder to come by, virtually. There’s also something about the immediacy and intimacy of the face to face moment that can’t quite be recreated.

    All of these things really help us to know a person and that, of course is how you build rapport which is the foundation of business. So I don’t think the events industry is likely to go virtual and leave us all looking for work. If anything I believe that virtual relationships will inevitably lead to more face to face meetings.

  2. I couldn’t agree with you more that “virtual relationships will inevitably lead to more face to face meetings.”

    Moreover, I see them leading to better face to face meetings!

    Relationships culled from the less constricting virtual meetings (that would not have jumped off if relying on face time or no meetings at all) will have a stronger base to begin a relationship in the flesh.

    Time will also be saved from meetings in which you may have had unnecessary time face to face as well, making it that much more worthwhile to prepare for the benefits that face time allows.

    Face time can be a boon for a relationship, and by extension, a boon for business—seems more than worthwhile to take its benefits seriously!

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